from now on every week i'll put a topic on my blog for discussions, problems i had or views i need to sought, i just thought that i tink too much and its always my own views so i want to start thinking with a varitude of ideas and viewpoints, so i need YOU GUYS to help by commenting.....if u have a particular topic and wouldnt mind me bloggin abt it, msg me and i'll do it ya...
This weeks topic, controvesially...I got this out of a talkshow...
Ladies and Men...Whu gets hurt more in a relationship......
My view, tha guy...I mean not bein sexist or judgin by my own gender but its a known fact that men are not very ept in handling emotions and take a long time to move on or get their act together....we both hurt i agree but if tha notion is hurt more i say its tha guy....i beleive men and women compliment each other because as one the guy becomes tha brain and tha physical strength while tha gal is tha heart and emotional strength...so in that sense tha guy is clueless in r/s and crap true but when he is hurt, he doesnt know how to deal with it and yeah suffers more....
Your view? leave it on tha tagboard and i'll add it into this blog, if u guys wanna leave it as anon fine but plz do try leave names coz its nice to know who feels tat way and if its a unique view i would love to talk to tha person abt it, how do u talk to a anon?
jer: yes, the guy. A guy has no outlet for his emotional turmoil. Girls has others. And most of the time, we see the girls gettin' over the guy real fast..and soon, she's into the arms of another guy. The guy - reeling in pain and sorrow.But these are what i call sentimental guy - stupidly emo, or just couldn't take one blow too many.
*RaNjiNi*: I really dun think we can ever genaralise this. It all depends on an individual and the love that is stored in them. Both parties have feelings and it all depends on the r/s they had.
Cathy- Shares tha same sentiment as ranjini in that theres no generalisisation for which gender hurts more....also feels that both sides have their share of black sheep
ja: both parties get hurt in a r/s, it all depends on how they handle it. both contribute to where they land up in hurt. sometimes, you really can't love without hurting. =)
GRJ: honestly, i feel that this topic canot be debated on. every individual is different. even if you take a survey,it'll vary so much tht you cannot conclude if its the males or females who hurt more. it depends on the individual and how the relationship as ended or is going. it def depends on e situation. thus, I say both get hur t but no one can judge on e majority who hurts more.
Shahrom: its hard to generalise this. It all depends on how much each individual put into the relationship. I`ve a guy friend who gets in and out of a relationship almost every mth..yet, no broken hearts..
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